Another women giving my husband a bday gift
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|Fri, 03-22-2013 - 4:48am|
Hi, I was just wondering if anyone else would find this inappropriate , My husbands bday was a couple weeks ago and he brings home from work a big bottle of wine,two discount restuarant cards and a personal bday card addressed to him from his female co worker. So dh is like oh look what B----- got for me for my bday. Well I was really surprized since they worked together for couple of yrs and she never gave him a bday gift let alone a bday card before. I said why all of the sudden is she making a big fuss over your bday? dh says oh i dont know ,to be nice ,I guess. I said to dh ,dont you find this alittle too personnal,weird ? especially never making a fuss over him before. I started to slowly get pissed off,especially because dh was kinda had an attitude twords me like,(rubbing this in my face alittle) I will be very honest I felt like dh and this women were kinda trying to tell me something,,like they had something going on with each other. Its hard to explain,I just felt like well now what do I do with this "in your face " kinda brassing move on both their parts. I know it just sounds really crazy,jealous ,paranoid on my part,but it left me with a real weird feeling,If I am absolutly over reacting with this gift thing I am courious to know. I feel like this women crossed the line ,and she knows dh is a married man. In the bday card she gave him, she says how great guy he is and thanks for being a good co worker ,and thanks for just being you,real mussy kinda stuff ,and hopes he enjoys the gift cards to go out to eat..... she never mentions ,oh you and your wife have a nice dinner on her ,like something like that would of been ok ,but I guess I was really feeling jealous or I am just really over reacting about this whole thing.Am I wrong to feel this way?? this weekend he has plans to visit his adult son,who lives outta town,and he is gonna stay over night,it just is making me sick and wondering??? I asked dh if there was anything going on,and tried to explain how I felt ,uncomfortable about this women doing that,he got real defensive and yelling. oh and signs the card ,Lv always,---- Is this inappropriate or is it just me acting like a jealous wife??