Battling Facebook Jealousy
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|Sun, 04-28-2013 - 12:09pm|
Well to summarize, i have extreme jealousy issues and maybe even control issues. Ive been trying to work on it though bc I know it stems from insecurity and insecurity is just not attractive but i have a problem trusting men and people in general. Anyway, Ive been with my bf now since Sept 2011 and we've been living together since August 2012. He's a good guy, Im insanely in love with him and I think hes faithful to me for the most part but I have a big issue with social media. I dont have a FB 'cause I dont really care for one yet but sometimes I feel like getting one just to give him a taste of his own medicine bc he's jealous too, maybe not to the extreme that I am but he's jealous. So basically I see that he requests random women sometimes (he requests guys too but obviously I dont care about the guys). I asked him why he's requesting these random women (which some look like whores)? He says to "grow his friends list" and to eventually "network his website" on there once he finishes the website. I also see that he likes pictures of models and shares them sometimes. Anyway, I didnt like being in the dark so I demanded he give me his password since he refuses to delete his account. He gave it to me the next day (probably after cleaning it up a little, who knows).
He assures me that hes not chatting with them, messaging them, flirting with them or commenting disrespectfully but I just feel like FB opens up doors to infidelity a lot more easily than if he didnt have a FB. It makes other women more easily accessible for him. He says that it depends on the person and that he has no intention of cheating on me, blah blah. Let me add that he would prefer that I dont have a FB either but the good manipulative excuse he has over me is his whole networking idea. Idk am I overreacting about FB? Any comments would be appreciated.