Boyfriend and Best Friend Dont Get Along

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Boyfriend and Best Friend Dont Get Along
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Fri, 08-25-2006 - 3:57pm
My boyfriend of 2 years and my best friend of 8 Years do NOT like each other. My boyfriend doesnt like my best friend because she has slept with two of his friends. The one she is currently dating. Hes also his best friend. So two best friends are dating two best friends. He likes her even less now that shes dating his best friend. Mainly because they are always together and he thinks my best friend does drugs and will get his friend to relapse. Personally I have never seen the signs of her doing drugs. My best friend doesnt like my boyfriend because she thinks hes mean. She only hears my side of our fights or arguments and has heard him say mean things to me but its not that he does anything where I would break up with him. He said say something mean to her once or twice and thats mainly the reason she doesnt like him. My problem is that they bitch about each other to me!!! iM STUCK AND I dont want to be! Help
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Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 4:58pm
You can't make them like each other -- but you can refuse to listen when they want to complain to you about the other.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-26-2006 - 2:13am
Kim's exactly right - you're only as stuck as you allow yourself to be. Their relationship with each other is theirs, not yours; you have no place in it. Take yourself out of it by refusing to be a part of it.








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Registered: 12-31-2004
Sat, 08-26-2006 - 6:50am

you write: "iM STUCK AND I dont want to be! "


then don't be.