boyfriend slept in same bed with another girl!?
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|Sat, 04-23-2011 - 2:49pm|
My boyfriend of 10 months recently went on a weekend trip to Santa
Barbara. He went with his family, but he has some really close friends
who go to college up there, so he was planning on staying with them. One
of his closest friend up there is this girl he was close friends with
in high school. they still talk pretty often and hang out whenever she's
in town. I've never officially met her, but we;re friends through the
internet. He;s wanted me to meet her, but everytime i've just had
something going on. anyway, she has an apartment with a couple
So of course, being a college town, they go out to the bars and party for the weekend. There are other people with them including some guys and some other girls. I guess they all go back to this girls apartment and crash there. I expected this, no problem. I didn't want him driving anywhere drunk anyway.
He is really good about calling me the whole weekend, and he always texts me when he's hanging out with her alone. But when he gets back, he's complaining about his back, and I ask if it's because he had to sleep on the floor. He says no. He said the first night him & this girl passed out on the guest bed, and the second night they passed out on the couch, which was not comfortable. then later that night, she woke him up and took him to the guest bed to be more comfortable. He assures me that nothing happened whatsoever. He keeps saying how he was too drunk to even walk, so he couldn't have done anything like that. He says she has a boyfriend and that he would never do anything like that anyway.
P.s. he hhas told me that right before we started dating, this girl started to really really like him, but he told her he was interested in someone else.
I trust him, I just don;t understand why he would put himself in a situation like that that would make questions come up. Also, i think it is really weird that she would not sleep in her own bed...and that they happened to "sleep together" (but nothing sexual happened) BOTH nights.
\\am i wrong to feel disrespected and uncomfortable with this??When he told me this I started wondering about their past, all the sudden...i just know that there's alot of guys that I've been strictly friends with that i secretly wanted to be with given the chance.