Condoms found

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Registered: 10-24-2001
Condoms found
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Wed, 03-27-2013 - 2:04pm

I found 2 condoms in a small bag in my husband's toiletry bag. Also inside this small bag were bandaides, antiseptic ointment sample, a sample packet of aspirin, and some cotton balls. This small bag came from a duathlon race he attended out of state alone last year. I do triathlons and duathlons too, but have never received condoms as part of my race packet! The reason I saw them was because the bag was out in plain sight within the larger bag and my husband had gone into it to get a bandaide. I actually picked up this small blue bag because I had not seen it before and I noticed through the see-through plastic what I thought were condoms inside. My husband took it out of my hand, put it back, and tossed the toiletry bag under the sink. I went back and looked inside after he left the house to confirm I did indeed see condoms. So, what are the chances they were part of the race packet stuff? The LAST thing I would expect from my husband of just 5 years is unfaithfullness. It does not seem possible since we have a great relationship/life together and do everything together and are rarely apart. The only thing that makes me question is the fact that he would have seen friends at this race who he's known longer than me (male and female), and I just can't figure why they'd put condoms in a race packet. And if they did, why didn't he laugh and tell me about it or get ride of them? I am going to ask him about it because it's driving me crazy. But what are your thoughts?

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Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: 67girl
Wed, 03-27-2013 - 2:33pm
  • It's him you need to ask.  So many of us seem to prefer to just go on and on without saying "WTF" when a dicey situation comes up.  I've done it for many years, but I don't anymore.  Suspicion drives you nuts, so talk and get it over with.  Whatever the answer is, better you know, right? 

 

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