Does he control too much?

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Registered: 10-09-2010
Does he control too much?
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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 8:16pm

In some ways I know my husband is too controlling. But in other areas, I'm not as sure about.....

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 8:36pm

Sounds controlling...but can come from other issues.

Is this your first marriage?

Missy
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Registered: 10-10-2010
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 8:54pm

I think it depends on the overall context of these activities. Why you want these private areas away from him, if he is inappropriately insecure, controlling or

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 9:07pm

Hi Renee.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 9:10pm

Coconut, it would appear that you and I are on a similar vein.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 10:32pm

have a savings account for myself that

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Registered: 06-24-2008
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 11:30pm

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:26am

Exactly my thoughts. All of these things could be controlling or not, depending on past circumstances. Has there been excessive spending on your part in the past where he don't trust you to handle money, or cheating (or even suspicion of

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 1:10am

I would approach each situation as an opportunity to be able to discuss something that you two don't initially agree on.

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Registered: 05-14-2001
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 2:23am

Welcome to the board, Renee0987 ~

Like the others, I think we need a lot more information, and I hope you're up for giving us more.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
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Registered: 10-09-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 4:33pm

Yeah, after I wrote it I realized it probably wasn't clear enough, so here's the rest of it : )

have a savings account for myself that

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