Does this take some getting use to?
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|Sun, 08-05-2012 - 9:00pm|
I am in a new relationship after getting out of a bad one 3 years ago. This new guy is 12 yrs my senior. I am a 30 yr old female with 3 daughters. Everything about this person is great but little tid bits are sooooo irritatiing. We have been seeing each other since March and there is so much that I have to get used to as far as compliments,affection. I did not really get this in my last relationship. Since we have gotten together all of our time has been spent together and it has been great but to make a long story short he has some insecurity issues. Every week he is MAD about something. I will just use last week as an example. I work at night and we text while I am at work and he texted me and I took a little longer than usual to respond and his response was that I could have told him in advance that I was caught up at work and that would explain the delay in the texting. So the next morning he goes on a rant and asks me do I remember him telling me that his friend's stepdaughter works at my job and he was informed that I was not at work when I said I was. WTF! So he rants for a little and then he just hangs up on me. This was Monday. I have not talked to him since then. I have not called texted emaled to reach out to him and don't think that I should. I have nothing to hide. I am not seeing anyone else and I am a adult and do not have to feel like I have to explain myself to him. This is not the first time something like this has happened. I am trying to keep an open mind and a few friends said I need to nip this in the bud right now. And to top it off we do not have sex like that. (I have posted this issue in the sex message board) Any suggestions? Walk away? I don't want to run away from a relationship everytime it gets bad or he has a whiney moment!