Don't like his method of love

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Registered: 03-24-2005
Don't like his method of love
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Mon, 07-17-2006 - 11:52am

what do I do if my husband is still not comfortable with making love? I for one, want a very intense love process- long smooch, slow and deep love making, not rushing like him!
he is not even comfy kissing my lower private part. he says he might not kiss 'down there at all. But I cannot feel anything tickling me if already know he will not touch me down there. I can't feel interested with him during kissing or oral sex. we have not even gone to real sex yet. I have asked him few times to be more free and give me what I want too!

How do I make him understand what i need when he is always impatient when it comes to making love? He cant understand when I ask him to slow down! Please help!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-17-2006 - 12:15pm

For those not familiar with Gulabi1's situation, her previous posts can be found here:



uncompromising hubby
Ex boyfriend still loves me and wants me








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