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| Wed, 09-27-2006 - 2:15pm |
My husband and I have been married for only 5 months (together for 4 years b4 that). This past month or so has been terrible. We fight all the time and he is threatening to end this marriage. He said he is giving it a chance b/c he is still here. He may be giving it a chance physically, but not mentally. Mentally he thinks that our marriage has pretty much failed. The only reason he is giving me is that he doesn't like how I talk to him. I think that there is nothing wrong with the way I talk to him other than the occassional nasty comment if he does or says something that is uncalled for. I think he is blowing things way out of proportion and looking for an excuse to leave me. But I don't understand why. We have had our share of problems but we always got through them because we love each other. Why did he marry me just 5 short months ago if this is how he felt??
I am just totally shocked by all of this. Talking about it lately has gotten us no where, except 10 steps backwards. Should I tell him that maybe we should spend some time apart even though he says he is giving our marriage a chance by staying with me (meaning coming home at night)?? Or will that just make things worse? How do I make him happy so that he will want to stay in this marriage when I know that he has pretty much given up already??
Help Me Please!

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when you don't get what you want."
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"Ignoring the facts
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