Ex-girlfriend keeps coming back
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Ex-girlfriend keeps coming back
| Tue, 11-01-2005 - 8:20am |
I have been with my boyfriend for not even a month yet. We just started going out and the relationship is fresh and new and going great. We have known each other for a while and wever been friends. He had been going out with his ex for three years...then then broke up with her a few months ago..I believ it was around march or so. After they broke up they still spoke and he would still hang out with her and her friends...then he met me....he said he immediately fell for me from the start. Well we are goin out now and his ex still calls him and goes to his house and invites herself over for no reason!! hes upset about the situation and wants her out of his life. he also knows how i feel and i feel upset about the whole thing and it bothers me. For instance...shell call him and he wont answer but then shell call and text him until he has to answer to make her stop. Then when hes out and comes home. Shell be sitting in his house with his parents and have dinner, etc. She went out with him for so long she is comfortable around his house. I havent even met his parents yet because of his ex and the fact that his parents talk to her. He says his mom feels sorry for her. He told me that he needs to tell his parents that he is no longer with his ex. When he comes home and shes there he wont even speak to her. Then they fight and he tried to kick her out. He wants nothing to do with her. He mentioned me to his parents but i still havent met them and i feel uncomfortable because what if she shows up randomly. He claims that when he broke up with her he never gave her a solid reason why...they just broke up because it "wasnt working". I told him maybe he needs to sit with her and tell her its truly over. Like for instance we went out yesterday and she called 20 times...he didnt asnwer his phone once and she kept calling and calling...he got made at the whole situation and he knows it bothers me. he said that he can see it from my view. I told him if this was reversed how would he feel? he said he would kill the guy. I mean i think its partially his fault too. I mean before my Bf and I were hanging out as you would say and we were just friends...he would call her and go to her house for BBQs with his friend etc...I just dont know what to do at this point. I really do love him and he loves me and we want to be together for a long while too..this might turn into the long haul, but i just cant deal with this. Its driving me crazy and getting in the way of our relationship. Its like she doesnt ever want him to have a GF besides her. Help me!! What should i do? What should i tell him?

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