GF problems

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Registered: 07-27-2006
GF problems
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Thu, 07-27-2006 - 5:47pm
Here is my story. I have been with a my GF for about a year and a half now. When we 69, or any time im down there, it looks like she had either been with a lot of guys or some BIG guy.
When we mess around I put a lot of figures in side of her and she goes nuts. I’m wondering when we have sex is she thinking or wanting more. When she masturbates does she think of the big guy. Does she talk to her friends about me or the big guy or compare me to the big guy. Did she like sex with him better then with me. Why cant I stop thinking of her with a BIG one inside of her. I know that noone can tell me what her thoughts are but give me your input. Thank you
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: skeetstar
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 6:08pm

Skeetstar, you're letting your imagination run way too wild. There may never have been a big guy - and even if there was, she may not have enjoyed it. He may have been a lousy lover who had the technique of a jackhammer.

To address the physical aspect you notice: When a woman is aroused, her vagina naturally expands and becomes looser. The only time a woman's vagina is small and tight is when she's not aroused. Even if she's had a big penis...or lots of penii her vagina will return to exactly the same size afterwards. It's a wonderfully elastic organ!!

If you are noticing her being looser, it's because you're doing a good job at foreplay. It's not because of any past experiences she's had.

Look, I've had a few different lovers ranging from teeny to large. And you know what, my one teeny lover sticks in my head as being a great experience. Why? Because he was a little bit kinky, very passionate, great at foreplay....and a really nice guy.

Stop thinking so much. Go find a hobby ;-)

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Registered: 08-11-2004
In reply to: skeetstar
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 7:21pm
You're worrying over absolutely nothing. A vagina is meant to be able to expand enough for a baby to go through and still shink back to normal size afterwards. There is no way that even if she did have sex with someone with a large penis that there would ever be any detectable physical change afterwards. Anything you think you're noticing is simply how her body is made. Obsessing over issues like this is bad for your relationship. I don't know why you can't get it out of your head, but you better work on your own insecurity if you want to continue to date her.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: skeetstar
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 1:01am

Yep, the vagina is very elastic and it relaxes and opens up during arousal. Unless your girlfriend indicated she's dissatisfied with sex with you, I'd say you're looking for trouble where none exists.








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Registered: 12-31-2004
In reply to: skeetstar
Sat, 07-29-2006 - 5:11pm

why don't you ask her these questions? We don't know the answer.

If you're that insecure, then perhaps you need to not be in a relationship until you are more secure in your self and your abilities to please her.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: skeetstar
Sat, 07-29-2006 - 7:17pm

>>why don't you ask her these questions? We don't know the answer.<<

Of course, if you do ask her, DON'T say that it looks like she's had a stack of guys or one big lover. There is no surer way to find yourself dumped!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: skeetstar
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 12:36am

Lol ~ ain't that the truth!








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"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."

~ Author unknown








"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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Registered: 12-31-2004
In reply to: skeetstar
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 2:12am
LOL!!!!