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| Thu, 07-27-2006 - 5:47pm |
Here is my story. I have been with a my GF for about a year and a half now. When we 69, or any time im down there, it looks like she had either been with a lot of guys or some BIG guy.
When we mess around I put a lot of figures in side of her and she goes nuts. I’m wondering when we have sex is she thinking or wanting more. When she masturbates does she think of the big guy. Does she talk to her friends about me or the big guy or compare me to the big guy. Did she like sex with him better then with me. Why cant I stop thinking of her with a BIG one inside of her. I know that noone can tell me what her thoughts are but give me your input. Thank you
When we mess around I put a lot of figures in side of her and she goes nuts. I’m wondering when we have sex is she thinking or wanting more. When she masturbates does she think of the big guy. Does she talk to her friends about me or the big guy or compare me to the big guy. Did she like sex with him better then with me. Why cant I stop thinking of her with a BIG one inside of her. I know that noone can tell me what her thoughts are but give me your input. Thank you

Skeetstar, you're letting your imagination run way too wild. There may never have been a big guy - and even if there was, she may not have enjoyed it. He may have been a lousy lover who had the technique of a jackhammer.
To address the physical aspect you notice: When a woman is aroused, her vagina naturally expands and becomes looser. The only time a woman's vagina is small and tight is when she's not aroused. Even if she's had a big penis...or lots of penii her vagina will return to exactly the same size afterwards. It's a wonderfully elastic organ!!
If you are noticing her being looser, it's because you're doing a good job at foreplay. It's not because of any past experiences she's had.
Look, I've had a few different lovers ranging from teeny to large. And you know what, my one teeny lover sticks in my head as being a great experience. Why? Because he was a little bit kinky, very passionate, great at foreplay....and a really nice guy.
Stop thinking so much. Go find a hobby ;-)
Yep, the vagina is very elastic and it relaxes and opens up during arousal. Unless your girlfriend indicated she's dissatisfied with sex with you, I'd say you're looking for trouble where none exists.
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
why don't you ask her these questions? We don't know the answer.
If you're that insecure, then perhaps you need to not be in a relationship until you are more secure in your self and your abilities to please her.
>>why don't you ask her these questions? We don't know the answer.<<
Of course, if you do ask her, DON'T say that it looks like she's had a stack of guys or one big lover. There is no surer way to find yourself dumped!
Lol ~ ain't that the truth!
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"