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girlfriend is mad
| Sun, 02-04-2007 - 6:31pm |
i lost my virginity in january with some girl i wasnt dating. Then i fell in love with my current girlfriend in the end of february. Weve had sex since then, and it was her first time doing everything, but she cant forgive me for having sex with that first girl. She says she doesnt think she will ever forgive me. shes feels like its unbalanced like ive done stuff before us and she hasnt. I dont know what to say anymore. ive said im sorry a million times. Help!

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Carrie
Thelonious, first of all, you must stop apologising. You've done absolutely nothing wrong!
You need to take some control back and stop allowing her to treat you like this. I suggest you tell her you've had enough of her behaviour and that she needs to make a choice:
1. accept your past
or
2. move on
Tell her that the subject of your virginity is now closed.
When you say you lost your virginity in January, you're talking about last month, aren't you?
~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
This is a good place to learn a lesson from. Your past is your past and is no one else's business. Telling a current girlfriend what you've done sexually with whom, or with how many, is a mistake. Those who ask for it are the least able to handle the answer.
~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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