Is he cheating? Here's my feed back

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Registered: 05-30-2003
Is he cheating? Here's my feed back
Tue, 06-17-2003 - 4:44pm
thanks to everyone who gave advice wether I agreed or not!!! If you can recall my first post was titled "Is he cheating or am I crazy?" What I came to realize was that it didn't matter. I wanted to find a way to save my marriage and with the help from everyone's opinions and the advice from a very good friend, I opened my eyes and were working on our marriage, I feel so happy this is day 19 since I confessed my indiscrescions and I think were going to make it. We've resigned ourselves to keep trying and not let other peoples negativity affect us one way or the other. I'm glad there are no more secrets and I've decided to stop looking for trouble, I look at my husband with love now instead of confusion, curiosity and pain and in turn he shows me just how much he loves me every day. I'm glad we love each other enough to try, were also very excited about the new baby we found out it is a girl and were both very happy, It just goes to show no matter what love finds a way if you find yourself in a situation where the two of you love each other you can make it through, there is always a way sometimes it takes sacrifice and struggle and even prayer but were living proof it's possible, I know were not out of the woods it's a day to day struggle but I remind myself of the little things and I keep trying maybe I'll post again after the baby is born to update everyone. Thanks again!!!!!!!!