He left overseas,gained insecurites, decided to extended his stay again...Sleepless nights..
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|Thu, 01-05-2012 - 8:49am|
My situation as been a new life experience that has has been down for over a month, that today i woke up feeling stronger and came across this website to share my experience and open to some input.
My ex fiance and I meet and bonded perfectly. I met a man that thought i feel in love with b/c he had qualities of becoming an amazing father and potiental husband. Months after dating, he made the decision to work oversees. I remember tellling him, do go just for the money. You can work out your financial sitution here in the states.. We promised each other that we would continue our relationship while he decided to go overseas for a year. I said fine, a year is a year plus this would give me time to focus on my goals. We continued our relationship via phone, skype and letters with occasional visits to the states every 6 month. He left overseas showing me the valueable, humble, and family man that he was. We also left each other with trust on both parts knowing that he will be out there for work and pay bills.
Months after being deployed we carried on our realtionship well with both mutal understanding of the distance. 6 months after being out there, he came to the states and planned this amazing engagment and my "ideal ring"we both saw before he left overseas. So of course, I was so happy but the alternative was that He wanted us to get married, BUT he need to say at least another year.... My in loved self said of course!