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Is he the one?
| Wed, 09-20-2006 - 12:40pm |
help!
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. Though we have known eachother for close to six years. About two months ago he broke up with and told me that he was "unhappy" and did not see us together. A week went by and he told me that he wanted to get back together. He said he was just confused and needed some time to think. We have talked about getting married since we first started dating, and he has expressed to me multiple times that he "can't live without me", how amazing I am, and how he wants to have kids with me.
Recently he broke up with me again, told me once again that he was "unhappy", and did'nt want to be toghether. So I left him alone, did not call him, and gave him his space. Again about a week later he said that he over reacted, and does not know why he broke up with me and can't live without me.
I love him so much, but am confused on if he is playing games with me, using me, or just needs his space.
I feel like we will be together forever, or at least we should be. But I always have this fear in the back of my mind that he is going to break up with me...
Am I over reacting? What should I do? Should I stay together with him?
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. Though we have known eachother for close to six years. About two months ago he broke up with and told me that he was "unhappy" and did not see us together. A week went by and he told me that he wanted to get back together. He said he was just confused and needed some time to think. We have talked about getting married since we first started dating, and he has expressed to me multiple times that he "can't live without me", how amazing I am, and how he wants to have kids with me.
Recently he broke up with me again, told me once again that he was "unhappy", and did'nt want to be toghether. So I left him alone, did not call him, and gave him his space. Again about a week later he said that he over reacted, and does not know why he broke up with me and can't live without me.
I love him so much, but am confused on if he is playing games with me, using me, or just needs his space.
I feel like we will be together forever, or at least we should be. But I always have this fear in the back of my mind that he is going to break up with me...
Am I over reacting? What should I do? Should I stay together with him?

Uh...no you are not over reacting. He has done it twice in the past six months.
Peace,
Di
***If you cannot define yourself, your circumstances will.***
You've got to get the idea out of your head that there is only "ONE" guy out there for you, and if he's IT and you break up with him that you'll lose your one chance at happiness.
If I were you, I wouldn't have taken him back the second time.
Good relationships just aren't this tricky. Ditch the guys who are hard work and find someone who's easy to be with.
There are some things in your post that were troubling:
Stop and think, Palmtree, he's called it quits twice in two months. Go back to the friendship and let the rest go, it's not going to work. You're worth much more than this, someone who breaks up with you once at this early stage should be enough for you to be unwilling to lower yourself to accept him back. If he's unhappy at eight weeks, it's not happening.
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"