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| Mon, 03-27-2006 - 11:12pm |
my husband and i have been married for 5 years now
and he ejaculates too quick,
does anyone have any advice instead
of seeing a doctor?
thanks
and he ejaculates too quick,
does anyone have any advice instead
of seeing a doctor?
thanks

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Welcome to the board, Spicyed06 ~
A few important questions first:
Why is seeing a doctor not an option? Has he always had this problem or is this something new?
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
just one more question to follow cl-2nd life's....
How quick is too quick? Are we talking within two or three minutes?
I'd also like to know age of your DH.
Jen
Try posting on the 'Let's talk about sex' support board here at iVillage.
Practice with manual stimulation to get him to last longer, gauge when he's close and then back off, then start again.
Edited 3/28/2006 3:23 pm ET by itwinflame
Carrie
is this something that can be fixed? what is dh?
thanks
Carrie
Oh my, Spicyed, being dissatisfied with the sexual relationship you have with your husband is quite a lot to be dissatisfied with. And just *accepting* that, is giving up quite a lot. I don't know anyone who would be able to be happy in a situation like that, though I'm sure there are plenty who don't care about sex; obviously if you were one of them, you wouldn't have posted because it wouldn't be a problem. Sexual satisfaction is quite a lot to expect to just give up on.
My quote isn't about giving up, it's about learning from mistakes you've made. The idea that you should just resolve to accept a situation without looking for resolutions and doing what you can to improve the situation isn't acceptable at all to me.
You've left quite a few questions unanswered, we can't possibly offer you any suggestions if you aren't willing to help us. But if you're willing to just give up in this and accept it, I'm very sorry for you.
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
Edited 3/30/2006 2:26 am ET by cl-2nd_life
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
Spicy,
If he were younger than I would think his age had something more to do with it.
OKay, I'll finally spit out the questions that really need answered.
Is he "coming" way quickly or is it just before you get anywhere too? Because there are ways around that. Even if you are more prudish like me, lol. :)
Jen
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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