help!!

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Registered: 03-27-2006
help!!
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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 11:12pm
my husband and i have been married for 5 years now
and he ejaculates too quick,
does anyone have any advice instead
of seeing a doctor?
thanks

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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: spicyed06
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 3:10pm

I'm also hoping that she'll come back because I've got another question!

Is your husband aware that you are unsatisfied? It's just that I've got a very inoffensive way to ask him to try to extend a little :-)

Oh, what the hell....here it is anyway:

My DH falls right into the 'average' category. Which means a duration of about 5 minutes (give or take). Because he's quite normal (hate that word) I don't like to suggest that he's doing anything wrong or needs to change. So, in the heat of the moment, I will tell him how much I'm loving it and please don't come yet. Something to the effect of "oh, wow, this is soooo good. Please don't come yet - let's enjoy this for as long as possible". It has worked very well - DH has started to work on extending without the need for criticism on my part.

And Jen is right about there being other ways around this problem. For example, I get my orgasms during foreplay. Or, I will be just on the edge of one during foreplay and as soon as we start intercourse "whammo" there it is!

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: spicyed06
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 5:22pm

Cl,

I had wondered if someone had asked it. It was a question I had wanted to ask was all I meant... :)

And if it's not too inappropriate to say here, I second Aisha's way.... you also reach a point that way where you can have A LOT of fun....

Jen

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