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|Tue, 08-05-2014 - 1:40am|
I had been seeing this guy for about a year, he had just gotten out of a very long term relationship and his only real relationship ever. we decided to keep things kind of casual because of that, but I developed feelings. I think he did too since he said things like he "could" fall in love with me when I asked him. He helped me through a lot of stuff, he was truly a shoulder to lean on, and we would have such a good time together. It was very tense though sometimes and I stopped seeing him a few times even though I'd end up coming back again. Almost 6 months ago things ended abruptly and badly because he saw another guy kiss me out of nowhere, and i do admit I kissed the guy back, part of me wanted to make him jealous and I do feel bad about that, I was very drunk. he wouldn't talk to me and actually told me to fuck off, he had never ever talked to me like that it just shocked me, he always prided himself on being so easy going. then he called me late one night and i missed it, a few days later when I decided to call him back he said it had only been because he was "drunk and wanted to fuck." I was furious and hung up on him, it was again so out of character and so horrible to hear. I texted him the next day telling him the next time he was "drunk and wants to fuck"to forget my phone number (in caps) and that I didn't give a shit how he felt about me anymore. I heard nothing from him for months and we were both far from each other for like 5 months, up until a month ago I got a weird call from a number I think was him (almost 100% sure it was from his friend's phone) at 3 pm, and the next day a missed call from his actual phone number number, but this one was at 2 am. I've missed him the whole time and wondered why he had to act the way he did in the end, I feel like we never got a chance to get it right, but will he try to get in touch again? I really don't want to be the one to call him, and I'm scared he'll just tell me he called to fuck again, even though it's hard for me to believe he'd still be that cruel after all this time. he had done so much for me and was always so incredibly nice to me, it just doesn't make sense. I just hope he called because he wants to reconcile, and that he'll try again.