His ex is Asian!

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Registered: 10-17-2010
His ex is Asian!
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Sun, 10-17-2010 - 12:14pm

He was married to her for a long, long, time.

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Registered: 05-14-2001
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 1:30pm

Welcome to the board, Happykiki ~

My husband's ex is also someone who is kept their home absolutely spotless at all times.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 3:09pm
Thank you so much for the response! It is so nice to hear from someone else! He has never commented about my place. I think my insecurity stemmed from a comment that he made about her. It's a little nagging thought in the back of my mind that wont go away. In fact I did make my statement! ;) It made me feel good that you had also done that and it has worked for you. Again...Thanks!
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-17-2010 - 7:03pm

I work in a law firm that is mostly Chinese & 95% of my clients are Chinese.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Mon, 10-18-2010 - 11:58am
She is still an ex and I agree, all the cleaning couldnt keep them from getting divorced. A marriage is much more than cleaning and cooking.

Did he make the comment intentionally or you believe it just came out? I wouldnt worry .
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 12:14pm

The comment that he made was a positive comment towards her.

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Registered: 10-17-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 12:23pm

The comment that he made was a positive comment towards her.

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Registered: 06-24-2008
Thu, 10-21-2010 - 12:13am

I think there are two things you can do.

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