Home Decor

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Registered: 10-22-2010
Home Decor
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Fri, 10-22-2010 - 3:37pm

I'm a newlywed.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
Sat, 10-23-2010 - 12:38am

I think your mom is probably right in that it'll take some time.

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 10-23-2010 - 4:00am

>>He admits that he does have trouble with change.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Sat, 10-23-2010 - 4:21am

Welcome to the board, Beachlover2010 ~

I wonder if part of this might be in the way you approach it with him?


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 10-23-2010 - 4:32am

>>If, after you're clear with him, he's not amenable to the change he previously agreed to I'd be inclined to take Blue's approach and move back to "my environment", where he'd be welcome to join you, if he so chooses.<<

I edited my post somewhat while you were writing yours ;-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002
Sat, 10-23-2010 - 8:24pm

Honestly.

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Registered: 10-10-2010
Mon, 10-25-2010 - 10:40pm

I don't think I'd go for it at all. What about selling both of your previous family homes and getting a new house for a new start?

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 5:01pm

I plan to marry a woman who has a bigger house in a better neighborhood with neighbors she is close to.

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Registered: 10-22-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:27pm

Thank you all for your replies!!

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Registered: 10-22-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:31pm

Oh and BTW, I would love to sell both homes and start anew!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:42pm

And Mark, you said you will have your own "private room"?

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