how am i suppose to know??

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Registered: 11-05-2011
how am i suppose to know??
Sat, 11-05-2011 - 10:06pm

my ex who i am talking to and seeing (not with) does a very good job on hiding how hes feeling.... after we broke up we stoped talking for a month he came to me told me he missed me and we might beable to work things out we have been hanging out alomst everyday... he told me he dont want a girlfriend right now and hes not seeing any other girl he told me tonight after me asking him that he does not know if he wants to be more then friends or just friends he dont know anything..... but we hang out like we were together... i dont know if

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
Sat, 11-05-2011 - 11:54pm
I know this sounds simple, but you should tell him to come back later when he does know what he wants.

Other than that, you're wasting your time. You know that, right?


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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 12:29am

If you're happy being not a girlfriend and maybe never his girlfriend, then stay.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2011
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 1:13pm

im starting to believe i am wasting my time..... beacuse now the only way to talk to him other then phone is on yearbook & last night he blocked me.... im just so tired of it all

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Registered: 05-14-2001
Sun, 11-06-2011 - 1:34pm

Why is he an ex, what caused you to

~ cl-2nd_life

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Registered: 11-07-2011
Mon, 11-07-2011 - 10:55am

It sounds like from your second post you are starting to change your focus from figuring out what he wants, to figuring out what YOU want.