I would suggest you start meeting with lawyers and financial advisors, and come up with the quickest least painful approach to moving forward with your life.
Thank you for the suggestion!
I would think that you would be out of your mind to think you could live w/ this guy for 4 yrs knowing that he's having an affair & he's planning on leaving you.
Thanks... I think it's crazy as well and believe me, if the financial situation wasn't such that it is he would have been packing a month ago.
Welcome to the board, Acavoda ~
Thank you so much for this thoughtful feedback.
Keep us posted on how you're doing!
There's no guarantee that the kids will be able to handle things better in a couple of years--in fact the closer they are to adolescence, the worse it will probably be, because teens are kind of self centered and don't like anything that doesn't revolve around them.
Thank you, you are right, of course.
I'm glad you see that, Acavoda.