How immature!!!
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| Tue, 07-04-2006 - 2:23pm |
Happy 4th all!!
Just a little to post to vent about my man. Lately some things have been bothering me and I have been so busy lately helping my grandparents move into a retirment home I have not had the time to sit bf down and discuss them yet. So he calls me at work yesterday and says “is there anything wrong” and I said “yes….” and he said “what”? I paused for a moment because I was standing right in front of my boss and then was about to walk away to say I did not want to discuss it while I was at work but he didn’t give me a chance he just started yelling at me and then hung up on me. I just laughed that off and thought how immature. He asks if anything is wrong, I say yes, he yells at me and hangs up on me. Wow!! Then about an hour later, I’m in the stockroom with the owner and two other employees and I was in the middle of a sentence talking to the owner, my boss and he walks in and hands me an envelope. I was surprised and I guess kind of confused because at first I just stood there looking at him. So he kind of reaches his hand out a little further and kind of shakes the envelope at me so I took it and he just walked out. I was a little embarrassed so I just put it down and continued with what I was saying to my boss. I few minutes later I opened it and it was a note apologizing for calling me at work but since I won’t talk to him he is not going to call me anymore and whatever is wrong will stay wrong until I say something. He then goes on to say … “I know I do dumb stuff but you lead the world in personal bull@#*@ and I put up with you so cut me some slack because your stuff is chest deep everyday”. Love, Ted
Unbelievable!!! I can not believe he wrote me a note!! Are we 14!!!! By the way, I am in my 40’s and he is 35. How did “yes there is something wrong” open the door to “you lead the world in personal bs”?? I’ll say it again, unbelievable!!!
Anyway, that’s my story today. Have a happy and safe 4th!!

Are there longstanding or serious unresolved issues going on between you? If not and/or if this is his typical response to problems I only have one question....
You're staying in a relationship with him because?????
I'd take advantage of his *demand* and not respond at all, ever - end of story and end of relationship. Ahhh, freedom from that kind of immature, ridiculous drama. To me, it would be the perfect way to resolve a problem relationship like this.
At first glance this puts me in mind of the last scene between myself and a guy I was dating several years ago. His last words were, "if you leave now I'll never call you again"...as my foot hit the accelerator....
But then, there may be a lot more to this than we understand.
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
Edited 7/4/2006 5:23 pm ET by cl-2nd_life
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"