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How should I react
| Fri, 07-21-2006 - 5:06pm |
My fience and I are about to buy a house and we are needing some appliances. Well today I went to buy a washer and dryer. I bought a washer and asked him how he he was going to get it to the house and when. Well he told me that he could borrow his dads van. So I asked him when. And he told me that he didn't know that, he had plans with his friends all weekend. So I was like ok never mind. The problem is that he is stressing to get everthing in the house and when I ask him to do something he blows it off. I don't know if I should be mad or not, but I am. It makes me feel he doesn't really care about our lives. What should I do?

Is there a reason it needs to be there by this weeked? Men hate to be given a job and then micro managed --- makes you sound like his mother/boss not his gf. If he said he will do it then tell him when you need it by and let him handle it. If you have to be involved then ask him to give you a head's up when he is ready to schedule it (like after he talks to his Dad and finds out when the van is available). If you don't hear anything OK to check back in a few days without nagging or attacking. If he does it without you having to remind him make sure to give him a big hug and a big thank you.....for being your big strong man and handling the heavy stuff....you will be amazed at how that will effect him.
Is the real issue here that is causing these feeleings, him hanging with his friends all weekend?
P.