How wrong am I.... if at all
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| Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:43pm |
New here.... been lurking and I hae to ask am I wrong.
I sold a piece of porperty that I acquired before marrying darling hubby........ well not sell in the traditoinal sense but my interstes were attained by another...... I did not see the need to share this info, as this is and was my property, no monies ever came from hubby's bank account....
He told me that I was wrong became very angry with me and said that I am shady, sneaky and will keep secrets from him that I might as well be cheting on him.
Now yes, may be I should have share the details of the transaction prior to but I was not required to in my opinon as the property was mines prior to marriage, he had no interest.
I can understand your being upset but the name calling, that is throwing me for a loop.....
sorry for any typo's but I am typing through tears.

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At the very least, it would have been courtesy to discuss it with your husband. If I were in the same situation, I'd be extremely POd with my husband for not even telling me what was going on.
With this in mind, why didn't you discuss it with him out of pure courtesy? Do you not trust him?
Of course you're not legally "required" to tell him if it was your sole property, but why wouldn't you? Was there are reason you wouldn't even mention it? That seems like it would be a fairly significant thing to not come up in conversation...
Sheri
I trust my husband....
he knew I was selling the house but after the house was tied up on 2 seperate occassions, 6 morre house went up for sell, I just wanted to get rid of it because I did not want to go back another time and say it fell out of escrow.........I just wanted to get rid of it.......
I'm sorry, I'm very confused.
Did you sell your property or give it away? When I read your first post and you say that no money changed hands, I'm inclined to think it was the latter.
If you did give it away, who did you give it to and why? Was your husband aware that no money would be changing hands? If he wasn't aware, why didn't you tell him?
Could you please give us some more information about why you did what you did - and why your husband is upset?
Edited 7/27/2006 11:20 pm ET by iv_aisha2004
Welcome to the board, Whatisit2005, I'm glad you decided to de-lurk, and I'm sorry you're going through this.
Like Aisha, I'm looking for a clearer understanding of what actually transpired, it could make a big difference. I'm also wondering if this is how he normally reacts when he's upset or angry, is it?
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
Hello,
I am a little confused too. I have property that I had before I married D/H. I either rent it or sell it. Currently I'm renting it. I'm not quite sure what you mean by your interests were attained. Did you soley own this property or was it a joint ownership of some sort and someone bought your interest in it?
I would have told my D/H out of courtesy.
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