Hubby got mysterious text...
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|Sun, 09-08-2013 - 11:47pm|
Hubby got a text from a contact named "Mitchy Bat". Dont know who or what that means... He is sleeping so I check the text. It says "It's all good-- you could never bother me :) " Seems to me to be a girl, right? what guy friend would say " :) " All previous texts deleted, so I don't know the surrounding conversation. So what do I do-- I delete the message and I delete the contact!!!! I have a pit in my stomach.
Hubby and I have had issues in the bedroom-- last year we talked about getting divorced over it. He had a romantic interest at that time, and we decided to work things out so he ended things with "the other woman".
Life is so busy in the summer, and I have not been "lovey-dovey" with him lately. He went out to football today and got totally drunk. I am thinking he may have texted the old flame, although he told me he deleted the contact.
Don't know what to do. Not sure how I feel about this. Really have not been wanting to be intimate with him at all. I am sure he senses it. We decided to work things out for the sake of the kids. So hard... I really would be fine if I went the rest of my life without having sex with him. I only started putting out because he was going to leave. I love him as a friend and as the father of my kids, but I cringe when he gets "that look" or he makes a move on me. But I am emotionally & financially dependent on him, and I fear that if he had another woman, I know how he will do anything for a woman he's having sex with, I'm afraid he will betray the kids and not provide for them financially. I am afraid I would have to leave my home.
I will pray. Dont quite know what else to do. Any reactions to this?