Husband Cheating on me.

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Registered: 04-24-2011
Husband Cheating on me.
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 6:48pm

My friend told me that she caught her

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Registered: 09-06-2007
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 7:42pm
Your title says "me" but it's your friend's husband who is cheating on her?

I think she has already lost her man to the nanny. He was caught sleeping with her and he doesn't want her to leave. I'd say she's lost him already.

I think it is absurd of HIM to think the nanny he just banged can stay working for them. He's completely looney.

I'd suggest to your friend to find a great divorce lawyer and let the nanny and him have each other. Tell her to get past the denial stage.

I don't think it was your place to talk to the husband. You can advise your friend but you also don't have to get your nose in their business. I understand you were fending for your friend, but I don't think it will be effective.
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Registered: 05-18-2009
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 7:56pm

If you want to support your friend, then you need to relate to her and not intercede in their marriage directly by talking to her husband.

I'd be serving divorce papers... To do any less is to invite yourself to be cheated on indefinitely. If you want to be a good friend, be supportive of how she feels.

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Registered: 05-14-2001
Sun, 04-24-2011 - 11:52pm

Welcome to the board, Workingmomng ~

First, I have to say while I do understand you are concerned for your friend and her marriage, it's not your place to contact your friend's husband to discuss their issue with him.

~ cl-2nd_life