Husband makes me sick

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Husband makes me sick
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Sat, 11-25-2006 - 5:27pm

I am really sick and tired of my husband. He is such a jerk sometimes I could scream. I don't even know if I feel like fixing this. The same problems over and over regarding my children. I have 2 girls ages 14 and 22 from a previous marriage.

I took my 14 year old to grandma's because she wanted to spend some time there. Daughter calls to say she thinks she may have left her money here at home. I found her money on the floor and told her I would take it to her later in the day. No biggie.

Oldest daughter who is 22 works a lot. Something my husband doesn't do. Daughter called and asked since we were going to grandma's anyway could we pick up her clothes and bring them to her. It's about a 1/2 mile drive to get her the clothes. She can't get a break because of her job, they are short handed. Husband blows up and says he will "JUMP" because that is what he supposed to do and goes and takes a shower. I told him I would take the money to my daughter, pick up older daughters clothes and he could just stay home. He blows a gasket and says "NO, I will jump like I am supposed to because your daughter is too f****** lazy to get her clothes. LAZY? who the he11 is lazy here. DH hasn't worked in about 6 months, stayed in bed from 3am this morning to 3:30 pm today. Doesn't do a thing around here but watch tv and play on the internet. We live off my income. I wish he would leave, but he doesn't have a dime to his name, nor a car. I don't want to live like this with someone who says things about MY kids. No one is going to talk ill of my children who are good kids. I am ready to leave, move to my moms and let him deal with paying all the bills on his zero income. Someone please just shoot me.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 9:13pm

It's your house. He has to move out. It's simple.

Like it's been said, give him six weeks and then change the locks, maybe even hire someone to move all his possessions out at the same time if you really want to make it easy.

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 9:23pm

She should see an attorney before she just changes the locks.

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