Husbands ex.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2006
Husbands ex.
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Sun, 04-23-2006 - 8:05pm
Why do we,some women feel threatend by our husbands ex.?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: syble2002
Sun, 04-23-2006 - 11:42pm

I think that different women have different reactions to ex wives. Some feel no threat, some feel extremely threatened and others are somewhere in between.

I would imagine that the underlying cause would be one of security. To not feel threatened, a woman needs to be both secure in herself and know that her marriage is secure.

Would you care to share your problem? Perhaps we can help.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: syble2002
Mon, 04-24-2006 - 1:29am

Welcome to the board, Syble2002 ~


I think the possibilities of reasons and answers are too vast to mention as they're purely situational. Some have to do with the insecurities and issues of the women herself, some are due to the husband's actions, to name a few causes. Why don't you tell us more about your situation so we can offer you thoughts and suggestions that are based on your specific situation. No generic explanation or suggestion could possibly help.


I'll be checking back for your reply ~







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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: syble2002
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 5:38pm
thank you for you reply and the offer of help. I'm not the one who needed the help on this one. a friend of mine posed this question to me, so I brought it here where i thought id get a wide range of replys. thank you agan
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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: syble2002
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 5:41pm
thank you for your input. im not the one who needed help on this one. a friend of mine posed this question to me, so i brought it here where i thought id get a wide range of replys. once again, thank you
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: syble2002
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 6:04pm

So why not suggest to your friend that she post here herself, explain her situation and see what we think?


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