i dont know wht he means....?? pls help

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Registered: 11-21-2006
i dont know wht he means....?? pls help
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Tue, 11-21-2006 - 11:58am
my boyfriend said the other day tht "honey will u do me a favor, pls put on some weight..u'll look good" . the problem is tht he himself is 6 fet 2 inches tall and a little over weight and iam 5 feet 6 inches tall and a skinny. He says tht we will balance out as a couple if i gain some pounds (btw i have no tendency and have always been thin 110 lbs)..i wonder if he's being honest wid me or just NOT ATTRACTED TO ME..pls help

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Registered: 02-23-2006
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 12:49am
My bf told me to put on some weight when we had been dating for 1 year I was already a little chunky being 4'11 and 120 pounds. In our 3rd year he told me that I was fat so I brought up him telling me this. He said it was because he was jealsous and no one would want me if I was fat so he wouldnt have to worry. Now he is not attracted to me because of the weight and I really didnt gain to much until I had our little boy now Im about 140 pounds. Don't put on any weight just stay healthy and eat right. if he doesn't like you being skinny then oh well. I don't mean to be rude but I just had a bad experience with this when I could have been the same size all along. You will probably be disappointed especially if you don't want to gain weight. So good luck hope everything works out
Ash
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 1:20am
A guy I had a date with once told me that he preferred girls who were a little heavy. I told him, "Then you're not going to like me much because that's not me." and I didn't date him again.

You are who you are, who you're comfortable being, who you want to be - and he is the same.







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When you don't get what you want"

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Edited 11/28/2006 1:22 am ET by cl-2nd_life








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