I feel like such a fool

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2003
I feel like such a fool
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Mon, 06-16-2003 - 10:19am
My bf is such an idiot and he thinks I'm a fool,hes been going on a chat site which I confronted him with 1 month ago and he promised he would not go on it again,then I found he had an address and phone number from one of the women,who up until this day he has been phoning,I am 6 months pregnant with his baby and we have been engaged for a year and a half,I don't know what to do,do I confront him again and try to work it out or do I just finish it?I thought he loved and respected me but he obviously doesn't.please I really need advice on this one.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
Fri, 06-20-2003 - 9:46pm
If I were you, I would try to talk to him about it. Sit him down and calmly discuss your concerns and feelings like mature adults. Find out why he has been talking to this woman. It could be that he is a little scared about becoming a father, or getting married, and he is just looking to ease his fears by talking to someone. Or it could be that he is looking for a way out of his commitments. The only way to find out for sure is to talk to him. For the sake of your baby and your relationship, try to work through these things. If you find that it is impossible, the least you can do is part on friendly terms so that he can still be a good father to your child.