I Get so Angry

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Registered: 01-05-2010
I Get so Angry
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Fri, 01-21-2011 - 10:13pm

I love my fiance...but he can make me really angry. I mean so angry I yell and scream and feel like hitting something....sometimes even him. He can be very arrogant...I hate that. The other night....it was a silly little thing...he was talking about this hat he wears, The style of hat used to be known pretty much as an old man hat and when he was a kid he used to wear one to school where he was teased for it. He said that after a while more kids were wearing these hats and now they are popular. He is convinced he created the trend worldwide. I told him he didn't and he insisted it was him...and 100% believes it.

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Registered: 09-15-2010
Wed, 01-26-2011 - 5:52pm

I 100% agree with you, she does not like him. I never really thought of it that way until it was brought up! I agree you can love someone but not truly like him and I do feel this is the case. Why be in a relationship with someone who bothers you so much? My god, this poor guy must just laugh and shake his head.

To the OP, I'm sorry if I sound like a *B* but I guess it's because I have a very professional and sucessful boyfriend who, on his time off the clock, is a ridiculous boy and I just accept it and laugh at his fun silly nature. He *use* to laugh at his farts which I didn't find funny, he would make up accents that didn't even match any that exist that I knew of, and would create stories that made no sense! I just laugh at him and shake my head. Boys will be boys. If you want a man and not a man/boy, move on! Find a new man. This guy is not your ideal mate. This is your life from now on. His farts will not stop being funny. Thinking he created a hat trend will not just disappear. Either live with it or leave it. It's your choice. There are MILLIONS of men out there, he's not the only one.

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Registered: 10-14-2001
Mon, 02-07-2011 - 10:47pm
LadyLoo...Your tone seems a bit harsh. This woman is posting her story honestly to get feedback, not judgement. If it irritates you that much maybe refrain. She wants help and understanding not condemnation.
Soliel
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Registered: 02-15-2008
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 9:57am

From what you posted I can not say that you have anger issues or if your fiance is trying to push your buttons, could be both.

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