I need a lil bit of help
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I need a lil bit of help
| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 11:55pm |
well my problem is that I am in a reationship with a girl whom I am deeply in love with. We have been dating for over a year now and she says we need a break. I admit I did not give her everything I should have and I am more than willing to work for anything thing she wants. Shes just not sure what she wants to do. How can I show her that I am still intrested with out pushing her away and ruining any chances that we may stil have???

Welcome to the board, Utohkindaguy ~
I don't think you're going to like what you hear, but it's what I really think.
Just like guys when guys say they "need a break", when either sex says it, it almost certainly means the relationship is on it's way out. Your girlfriend may truly just want a break, but the fact that she feels time completely away from you is what she needs indicates your relationship is not what she needs, wants or what is right for her.
IMO, the only thing you can really do is tell her just what you've said here, that you're still interested in her and don't want to push her away, ruining any chances that you may still have. Then tell her you'll respect her wishes and will wait for her to contact you.
Best of luck ~
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when you don't get what you want."
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