I need your Opinion Please read !

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
I need your Opinion Please read !
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Wed, 05-25-2011 - 7:18pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 10:45pm

I answered you on the other board, but just wanted to point out that this cat thing is just one more reason why the two of you are not going to work out.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 10:59pm
Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 11:58pm

Welcome back, Livlafluv2009 ~

I want to provide the links to your previous posts so that others can get a better feel for your situation and history, and so you can have the opportunity to read through them.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Thu, 05-26-2011 - 12:26am

Liflafluv2009, it looks like no matter how many red flags there are, how much you have to give up to be in this low level, unacceptable relationship, you're determined to tie yourself to a man who will make your life unhappy and cause you hurt and damage.

I'm sorry you're so willing to destruct so much of your life and those you care about for someone who shows you continually how little he has to offer you.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 05-26-2011 - 11:21am

Do you really feel he is the only possible man you could meet who could accept your handicapped child?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Thu, 05-26-2011 - 12:50pm

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Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Thu, 05-26-2011 - 10:54pm

Sweetie, the long and short of it is that the right man for you will have no problem with your adoption plans.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 05-27-2011 - 11:07pm

Musiclover and Geoteo, I completely agree that this man is not suitable for the OP.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 05-28-2011 - 1:01am

Although it's great that he accepts your daughter. Are you ready to accept that he belittles you and tries to control you? This behavior would become much worse if you ever did move in with him. So if you want to stay with him I suggest that you DON'T move in with him cause that's when the R will probably go sour as you will begin to resent his controlling behavior.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Sat, 05-28-2011 - 7:56am

Blue, you are right, and I apologize for my frivolous comment.

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