I think my partner is gay
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|Thu, 07-21-2011 - 5:38pm|
I'm 29 and am seeing a man who is 17 years older than me and I think he might be gay. He was married for 14 years but had a totally sexless marriage with his wife and they never did anything together. They never went away on holiday together, never ate together, never shared a bed and I feel that's odd. I asked him why he ended up marrying her and he just said that all his friends were settling down and marrying and he felt he should do the same. This rang alarm bells.
As far as my personal experience is concerned I have further inklings that he may well be gay. He has no idea of how to satisfy me sexually. His idea of foreplay is a quick tweak of my nipples and he appears to have no idea of the female anatomy. He'd need sat nav to even find my clitoris. Whilst touching me or looking at me he never gets an erection. He can only get an erection by me stimulating him or him masturbating and when we do have penetrative sex he insists on entering me from behind. I can sense people reading this message thinking that he merely doesn't find me attractive and doesn't want to look at me whilst having sex