I want to KILL him!!!!

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Registered: 06-10-2012
I want to KILL him!!!!
Sun, 06-10-2012 - 7:08pm

I'm pretty sure, in the grand scheme of things, this isn't the end of the world, but here's the story:


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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 06-10-2012 - 8:22pm

I think if he was laughing while he was talking to his friend, maybe his friend would assume he was joking around--he wasn't saying it in a serious tone of voice.  I agree that it wasn't the best thing to say but I wouldn't make such a big deal about it. 

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 06-10-2012 - 8:56pm

Yes; dont make a big deal out of nothing. Pick your battles and this doesnt sound like something to fight over unless you are leaving something out. .How is the rest of your marriage in general??

Count your blessings and kiss hubby and kids and share a good life together..

Take Care

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 06-11-2012 - 12:32am

Oh, PLEASE!  He was laughing while he said it!   He's a typical guy......and in this situation, he's never going to admit to another guy that he's too tired to make the big event.........so he jokingly blamed you.  Guys always use their wives as an excuse to get out of things.  "No, she'd get mad." or "I can't, she'll kill me if I don't clean the garage."  It's a JOKE........

You're making a mountain out of a molehill......and if that phone call is your worst problem, boy, are you lucky!!!