If I agree will it bite me in the !@# later.
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|Wed, 07-06-2011 - 11:55pm|
I have been separated for sometime now. My husband has told me that we need to downsize once he comes back from working overseas. He says he can't handle everything by himself any longer. He will be living in another state once he gets back. He wants to put me in the kids up in an apartment and take care of all the expenses except for the vehicle he purchased for me, told me I need to get a part time job to cover the car payment. Says he is not trying to be mean about the situation he just needs to make sure he can be able to still take care of his expenses as well when he moves. I don't know what to do, I already said OK but I don't want this to come back on me in the end when we finally do get lawyers involved and go to court. Right now no lawyers are involved and our separation isn't legal. He told me not to take this the wrong way but maybe I need to apply for assistance for my older 2 kids since they aren't his biologically, how am I suppose to take that. Any advice please. Is agreeing to this move a bad idea?