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|Wed, 03-12-2014 - 7:18am|
my family moved abroad last year, we were and are a close family.
I have two children, ages 1 & 7.
I have the illness Rheumatoid Arthritis, which isn't getting any better, I have a big operation coming up in 12 days time for a triple foot fusion.
I'm with my partner, we have been together for 3 years, I'm female by the way! Haha.
I feel alone.
My partner and I are always on and off, so I don't feel stable, which is vital to me, to the kind of person I am.
My sister in law hates me, she's 18, I'm 30.
My partner and I went on a break for a few days, and wishing those few days, I was really down, so I wrote a couple of status' on facebook about how hurt I was, nothing bad about my partner at all. . . My partners sister seen them and caused a scene in facebook, trying to cause an arguement for everyone to see, now says I was showing him up, which I wasn't, not in the slightest.
My partner and I have a child together, and I have one child from a previous relationship.
My sister in law has now decided to only want to have contact with my partner and our child, leaving me and my other child out.
She was calling me everything over text messages to my partner.
I was dying for him to turn around and stick up for me, to tell her that it's not acceptable for her to talk about me in that way...but he never does stand up to her, she's always been interfering in our relationship and has caused me and my partner to have many arguments.
I have tried to talk to my partner about how I wished he would stick up for me, but he gets a bit nasty, shouts at me, saying everyone's arguing and he's in the middle. But I truly believe, that if he put his sister in her place, once and for all, all of this would stop. But because he's not firm with her, this keeps allowing her to behave this way.
When we were on a break, none of his family came to see how I was, or the kids, his mum was looking after him buying him chocolate, offering to buy him shoes, which I think, she should have been saying, get over there and see your children and me.
I feel like everyone hates me and I'm the bad guy, even though, I have done nothing wrong.
I feel so alone, I just need stability, I wish I could talk to my partner about all of this but it must stresses him out and he gets down and ends up going out.
I'm finding my life difficult.
I'm finding it hard to be happy. I want to be happy.
There's nothing I wouldn't do for my partner, he's my world, so are my children.
Since he's come back, we made up, but it's like he's lost his affection towards me.
Like his heads been filled with people telling him how he should now act towards me, whilst he was gone?
I long to be held in his arms, where I feel safe.
I long to be liked, not hated for something I have not even done!
I haven't done anything wrong to him or his family, yet they don't like me. Why?. . . I have no idea :o(
My family aren't here, so I'm feeling pretty low and pretty lost.
I'm worrying about my operation, about coping afterwards, as I don't want to be a burden to anyone. If I can do anything myself, I will, that's just what I'm like.
Thank you for reading this,
For taking your time, to read my problems.
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