Insecurity in a relationship
Find a Conversation
|Mon, 02-27-2012 - 11:26am|
Hello. I wanted to come on this website to get some unbiased insight/advice.
I have been in a committed relationship for over 8 years. Since day one, I have been jealous. I don’t care that he looks at woman, speaks to a woman, etc. What I DO care about is when he wants to go out to lunch with a woman or texts a woman.
He has never given me a reason not to trust him. He is an honest person and a “likeable” guy and has always had girls that were friends. Therefore, he finds it incredibly aggravating when I throw a jealous fit if he wants to meet an old college friend for lunch or he gets a random text message from a co-worker.
First of all, am I totally out of line that I do not feel “comfortable” that he wants to go to lunch solo with an old friend (this happens very seldom)?
Am I acting crazy that I care that some female co-worker texts him?