Is it inappropriate to be going out to bars so much without me?
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|Tue, 03-01-2011 - 5:53pm|
Hello again! I've posted on here before, kind of with the same problems, same guy. We've been together 2 years and have some trust issues. We've worked on just about all of them, except one. He goes out drinking with his buddies and it makes me very uncomfortable. It's been going on for about 6 months (right after we broke up and got back together). Every Monday night (which is the one night a week he works late) he goes and meets a group of guys at a bar. Normally I wouldn't care. And I didn't. Until I found out he had lied about where he was in the past. So I ask him about this "tradition." The first story was that it's when I watch my tv shows so he just goes out with his friends. Then it become that his buddie's wife worked there and they went to hang out with her. Well she doesn't work there anymore. And the service it terrible so he said he wasn't going to go anymore after I brought it up. AND we're saving up to take a trip so we promised to save money by staying in more. Well 2 weeks ago, apparently the tradition started back up. Except this time, he lied. He told me a story from the last Monday at the bar. Then Sunday night one of his friends slipped up and said I'll see you tomorrow. So I asked him. He said they hadn't been going in a while since the wife quit,