I am 32 and have been married 4 years.
Welcome back, Flagal08 ~
I won't be able to respond for a while, maybe not until tomorrow, but I remember your previous post about your husband's gambling and I wanted to post the link to that so that those who may be able to respond before me can have the advantage of the added information.
I'm sorry to have taken so long, though I don't think you'll like what I have to say.
While I'm generally a huge proponent of couples counseling, I don't see that it will help at all.