I am 32 and have been married 4 years.
I'm sorry to have taken so long, though I don't think you'll like what I have to say.
While I'm generally a huge proponent of couples counseling, I don't see that it will help at all.
Welcome back, Flagal08 ~
I won't be able to respond for a while, maybe not until tomorrow, but I remember your previous post about your husband's gambling and I wanted to post the link to that so that those who may be able to respond before me can have the advantage of the added information.