I need some advice.
Hi flowergirl, I want to let you know first that we have a board specifically for this issue - It's called "Snooping and Jealousy", you might want to post this there too.
I think he should be treating you BETTER than his friends, not the same. It's not so special to call you "beautiful" and "funny" if he describes all his female friends this way.
What did he say when you first brought up this problem?
Are you also friends with his friends? Do you know them personally?
"throwing fits" is not adult communication. You can't throw a "fit" and expect to be catered to, it's very childish!
Does he have a problem with you meeting his friends? It sounds as though he's being secretive... Honestly this isn't a situation I'd put up with personally, and I am not really jealous of other women.
That's part of the problem.. I don't act very adult like when I'm jealouse. Its emberrassing.
Its not that he is secretive, its that he keeps us separate.
"I know he's super flirty and I have read his texts and emails to them."
What kinds of things do these texts and emails say?
Maybe this stuff would may anyone insecure - or leave.
Okay so the one woman that I am currently upset about is in another state.
I know this probably doesn't help you, but if it were me I'd dump Mr Wonderful and find a guy who didn't make me feel like I was just one in a dozen women he was trying to pick up.
Yeah, I think that kind of stuff can make a decent woman insecure. I'm not sure how long I would have stuck around in the beginning though.When I date a guy, I do want to feel that I'm his #1 and would not be comfortable with his doing this kind of stuff.