Mariiage trouble

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Registered: 05-12-2004
Mariiage trouble
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Wed, 08-09-2006 - 12:53pm
O.K. After many weeks of not talking to each other, I finally tried talking to him, and he just looks at me and walks away without even answering. He's still moving all of my stuff to the spare room, I'm now getting very tired of this game. When I get home, he gets up and leaves. It's getting to the point now when I'm starting to hate him. A friend of mine told me to have the locks changed but I don't know my legal rights and if that's the right thing to do. I'm at my wits end!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: pjniko
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:56pm

Welcome back, Pjniko ~


For those who aren't familiar or who need to refresh on Pjniko's situation, you can find her previous post here:


Marriage Trouble








"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: pjniko
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 2:02pm

Pjniko, you left many questions unanswered in your previous post, I hope you'll go back and read the responses you recieved so that you can answer them and clear up a lot of confusion and guesswork on the part of those who have responded to you.


It's also important to understand more than these bare basics that you've posted here.








"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: pjniko
Thu, 08-10-2006 - 7:23am

" . . . I don't know my legal rights . . . . "

If you don't kow your leagal rights in this situation, the obvious person to ask is an attorney. This will also get you off the fence and moving in some direction, either to save or to end your marriage.

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Registered: 12-31-2004
In reply to: pjniko
Thu, 08-10-2006 - 12:27pm

Your friend is giving you bad advice. If his name is on the mortgage, then changing the locks is unwise and it will cause the animosity to further escalate--unless you're more interested in that.

I feel for your children and what they are witnessing between their parents.




Edited 8/10/2006 12:28 pm ET by quenek