Men's fascination with other women......

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Registered: 03-30-2006
Men's fascination with other women......
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Thu, 03-30-2006 - 10:37pm
My boyfriend of 4 years is the greatest man in the world. He treats me like a queen, with one exception. He makes no secret of "appreciating beautiful women". Now, I normally have no hang ups about my looks & don't mind the occasional glance at a pretty woman passing by. However, he received his SI Swimsuit addition recently, and I began to wonder - what is it with men wanting to look at half dressed, seductively posed women when they have a perfectly fine one sitting right next to them? We have a fantastic sex life and he seems to love everything about me - inside and out. So why look at others? I brought this to his attention, and his response was "why not? I'm just looking. Don't you like to see beautiful things?" So I proceeded to explain that it is beginning to upset me that he likes looking at other women in a sexual way (this is simply my presumption....what else could he be thinking while looking at a women in a see through swimsuit, sucking on her finger???!!!). I asked him how he would feel if I had a magazine with every single page filled with hot, sexy men in very tight, revealing clothing - or none at all, but tastefully covered, of course - showing me all the goodies this hottie has to offer. He said he would be fine with it. Right. While this may sound like a ridiculous and petty issue, it is something I want to resolve, or at least understand. I have been on the hunt for a magazine, like the one I just described....a SI Swimsuit issue for women, you could say, to casually have lying around that I could "just look at" sometimes, to give him a taste of his own medicine. Any ideas? Thanks!

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Mon, 04-03-2006 - 12:13am

Jen, it just occurred to me that here I'd posted a "totally agree" with Aisha's post and *totally ignored* yours. I know your opinion on porn is different than most here, and I guess for that reason I felt that telling you I was in absolute agreement with what you said was important. If it wasn't important to you, it was to me, how's that? I just didn't want you to feel alone on the other side, that's all!

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Registered: 03-30-2006
Mon, 04-03-2006 - 12:20am
will do! I'm sure it will be comical! :)

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