My boyfriend don't want to get a better job, and i don't like to be the bread winner of a relationship
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|Mon, 07-28-2014 - 10:24am|
When I and my SO started dating, I knew he will be a good since we both have goals as to where our relationship will go.
But when we both started working, I got a high paying Job which is not that difficult and is giving me a 4x higher pay than his. In my case, I only have an associate degree. He has a Bachelor's degree. I would like him to take advantage of it and get a good job that can have a good pay. Cause his pay right now can’t even support for his own unless he won’t budget it thriftily. The problem is he don’t want to get a better job because his job don’t require him to do anything. He said he can’t do other jobs because he might not be good at it. I know that he can do it because he is smart. I think that it’s because he don’t want to anything (you might say his a little lazy) is the real reason he won’t do it. We have been dating for 2 years now. I know that I will be the bread winner, but I don’t want to be. I know that it’s okay if the woman is the bread winner, but for me, I don’t want to be.