Is my boyfriend too old or have we been together too long?

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Registered: 07-16-2011
Is my boyfriend too old or have we been together too long?
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Wed, 07-25-2012 - 4:45pm
Hey, my boyfriend and I have been together 4 years. There is a big difference in our ages, he is 38 and I am 23. My problem is, I used to enjoy sex quite often, nowadays I don't as much. We run a business together and it can be very stressful. When we do have sex it's like let's hurry up and finish not passionate at all. Is that what happens when you are together for a long time or is it his age causing his libido to decrease? The only other long relationship I had was a 2 year relationship but this guy was my age. What do you think?
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Registered: 12-22-2007

pbritt, tiredness and stress can easily account for all that you are seeing.  Loss of libido, loss of passion....our state of mind can do a real number on our sex life.      It's got nothing to do with age.

Time for a lifestyle rethink.