My husband always threatens
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|Sun, 09-26-2010 - 12:19pm|
We just got into a fight a while ago. It makes me so angry that EVERYTIME we fight, he threatens with divorce if I don't do anything that he says. For example, if I walk away or go to another room because I can't stand seeing him, he would threaten with divorce if I do that. This is one out of a trillion of threats he makes about divorce. So, I usually end up doing what he says just because I care about our marriage even in the heat of the argument. What happens when I threaten him with divorce just to get my way (I only do it because he does), well, no surprise, he chooses to do what he wants. Happened so many times that I believe he will never choose our marriage.
Sorry for the rambling. I guess the bottom line, is that he threatened me with divorce a few minutes ago. At this point, I'm not sure if i can handle him constantly saying that to me anymore. I feel sad that this may end us actually getting a divorce, but I want to not feel this threat all the time, and additionally, I want to start a family eventually and I feel very uncomfortable with this situation.
However, I want to seek advice from this board whether this is warrants a divorce or if I should stay to work things out.