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|Sun, 03-30-2003 - 11:07pm|
Question for you: if a guy you knew was coming on to you constantly after you'd made it clear you weren't interested, would you like it or would you ask him to go away? Would you brag to your boyfriend and keep the guy around 'as a friend' to enable you to continue to hear and see how much he wanted you? Next question is, if you did, would your boyfriend stand for it?
His telling you about this girl who 'wants to be more than friends' is nothing but being full of himself and bragging himself up. In fact, what it's doing is saying very poor things about his character and showing he has no consideration for you, or this girl. Apparently neither of you are as important as his all mighty studliness - proven by her desire.
Of course, he has to keep her around, just as a 'friend', that way he can continue to stroke himself by being around her to see her being teased and listen to her offer herself to him. What an ego boost, huh? Your boyfriend is showing absolutely zero character, maturity or caring at all by keeping her around 'as a friend'. He knows she's interested and knows he's not. He knows by dangling himself in front of her 'as a friend' he's ensuring that she'll continue to be stuck on him. What he's doing is making sure she's not able to go away and get over him, moving on to someone who *is* available. What kind of a guy does such a cold, uncaring, egotistical thing?
His attitude and actions would leave a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach and I'd tell him I was looking for someone with a little more caring, consideration and human kindness than he's proven to have. Move on, this guy's dirt.