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|Sat, 07-30-2011 - 9:29am|
My fiancee and I just moved in together after being in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 1 year and last night we had out first fight and I am not sure how to deal with it. We live in a small town and last night there was a concert. We had few beers so that was probably part of the problem. Anyways as we were leaving,my boyfriend starts talking to this older lady. This is not unusual for him or this town because everyone is usually very friendly and you can just start up conversation with anyone really. But I guess because I was little bit drunk, I said to him if he really needs to talk to some stranger right now and that I want to go home. I guess he did not like that and started walking very fast and I had to walk home alone. We live very close to the square where the concert was, less then 10 minute walk. However, I got very angry because he left me alone and I had few drinks so I was feeling little drunk. I mean there was no concern for safety because like I said this is a very small town but I would never leave him behind if i knew he was drunk. Anyways I had the keys so he waited for me in front of the house. I told him that I was angry because he left me and we got into a screaming match ending with him going to sleep and I stayed up. In the morning he woke up first, kissed me and said he loved me. I explained to him why I was angry and he said he understands but never said he is sorry. He went to run some errands and came back with flowers. I really appreciate the gesture but I still cannot help but feel still angry. Now he wants to go for a picnic and he is acting very cheerful but I still feel angry. I am not sure why I still feel so angry but I do. Am i overreacting? Should I still talk to him about it or drop it? Sorry for a long post and thank you!